Public Speaking - My Mistress!
It's better than Sex! More exciting than Skydiving! It's the number one fear most adults have - it's Public Speaking! Read on...
Make that Presentation!
How the best speakers keep their audiences interested
By: Deepak Morris
copyright: Deepak Morris, 1995
Ripley's "Believe it or not!" documents the case of a
dumb rabble-rouser in British-ruled India who had such stage presence
that he could whip up crowd fury in minutes, simply using sign
language! Not all of us are blessed with such a gift, nor, perhaps, do
we wish to wield such power. However, it does pay to be a good
presenter or public speaker, especially as one mounts the corporate
ladder.
As one climbs higher in an organisation, the demands to speak in public
become more numerous and more crucial. From simple welcome speeches at
induction programmes for new employees or management trainees, to more
complex sales presentations, to speeches made at public forums, the
manager is almost constantly being asked to stand up in front of a
crowd of people and say something, hopefully something that makes sense
and preferably something that inspires.
In the course of my career, I have had occasion to observe several
speakers. Some speakers I have seen have had the power to sway crowds,
turning a hostile mob into a group of sensible adults willing to
consider another's point of view. Other speakers have turned a simple
welcome speech into a major shambles, making themselves the cause of
merriment of staff for weeks afterwards.
What goes into making a good speech? What is it that a good speaker
does that keeps the audience on his side? The purpose of this article
is to find out what it is that these speakers do right, that helps them
keep their audience in the palm of their hand.
Tools of the trade:
Most good speakers have spent time and effort developing the tools of effective public speaking. Among these tools are:
Voice: Most
effective speakers have good voices. Their accents are clear and easy
to understand. This does not mean that they do not have regional
accents. It simply means that they have taken the time and the effort
to slow down their speech, making it that much easier for their
audience to understand. Effective speakers are also loud enough to be
heard right up to the last row in the audience. A notable exception to
this is V. K. Nulkar, ex-Principal of Ness Wadia College, Pune. Nulkar
always spoke softly, but with such conviction, that everyone in the
audience maintained pin-drop silence, making him one of the most
effective speakers I have seen. Incidentally, Nulkar made no attempt to
shed his regional accent, yet is remembered by all Ness Wadians as an
excellent speaker.
Expression:
Good speakers are alive! They speak with conviction, conveying their
belief in what they are saying to the audience. Some speakers do this
through gestures, others through their facial expressions, still others
through enthusiastic and expressive voices. The most effective speakers
are those who use a judicious mix of these, carrying their audiences
with them.
Confidence:
Good speakers are confident. Audiences are quick to sense unease or
trepidation in a speaker, and appear to interpret this as a sign that
he is not telling them the truth. No one listens to a speaker who
appears unsure about what he is saying. That is not to say that good
speakers do not hesitate, or mentally search for the right word - they
do. Yet their hesitation is forgiven, even appreciated by their
audience. The audience may like their home-grown approach, as long as
they come across as confident in the content of what they are saying.
Content:
The audience may forgive a speaker who doesn't have a good voice. It
may forgive someone whose speech sometimes lacks expression. But it
will never ever forgive a speaker who is unprepared. This is especially
true of corporate audiences, who expect that their time be respected.
To waste the time of an audience with half-truths, unsubstantiated
statements and empty words is a highly criminal act. And be warned:
that audience will never trust the speaker - or the company he
represents - again.
A good speaker has all his facts right, has organised them well, and
has practised delivering them - several times. There is no such thing
as a truly extempore speech. Those who speak excellently extempore are
generally those who have spent a major part of their lives practising,
until they have a vast repertoire of facts, figures and stories to hang
their speeches on to. All good speakers agree that the more they
practise, the better they become. And all speakers, including the best,
admit that they have made mistakes. But they have pressed on
regardless, learning as they went along, making a conscious effort to
do better each time.
Style: All
good speakers have a style that is uniquely theirs. Some use humour,
others are serious, but all, without exception, are recognisable by
their own way of speaking. They admit that they have drawn inspiration
from others, but they put in the time and the effort to develop their
own approach, melding different styles and moulding them to their own
way of speaking. Very rarely can a person who is habitually serious
tell a rib-tickling story when he faces an audience. If a speaker's
friends don't enjoy his jokes, it is highly unlikely that his audience
will.
What good speakers avoid:
Good speakers, in addition to developing good speaking habits, also avoid bad ones. Some of the things good speakers never do are:
Read their speeches:
Good speakers never read their speeches. They may keep their speeches
or notes with them, but they always give the impression of speaking
from the heart. When a speaker reads his speech, he gives the
impression that he is not prepared, or worse, that someone else has
prepared his speech for him. There have been numerous cases of speakers
who doggedly ploughed through their speeches, reading them throughout,
only to look up at the end of their speech and realise that they have
lost their audience, sometimes physically. Those who read out their
speeches also risk making mistakes, as in the classic case of the
pastor who began a gospel reading with, "...And Adam said..." and,
realising that the next page was missing, nervously told his
congregation, "My God! The leaf’s missing!"
Fail to maintain eye contact:
All good speakers maintain eye contact with their audience, without
staring. A lack of eye contact signals nervousness and may be
interpreted as a sign of deceit.
Fail to respond to the moment:
It is true that audiences come to listen to speakers. It is also true
that audiences have a life apart from the speech. In other words,
speakers who realise that their audience is getting restive either
enliven their speech or cut it short, preferably both. Being responsive
goes beyond being sensitive to the audience’s time, however. Good
speakers are flexible enough to respond to the moment. The unexpected
does happen. The PA system may fail. Or the fans may stop working. Or
some smart aleck may try to heckle the speaker. There are literally a
hundred things that could go wrong. Audiences appreciate speakers who
don't lose their head and respond appropriately to the exigencies of
the moment.
The common thread running through all examples of good speakers is
experience. Good speakers do not simply stand up and make a good speech
the first time. As in most skill-related activities, experience counts.
But good speakers do not wait for the right opportunity to be presented
to them. Most good speakers started off small. When an induction
programme ended, they were the ones who took the opportunity to stand
up and thank the HR people. When someone made a presentation, they were
the ones who raised their hand and asked the question everyone wanted
to ask but was afraid. George Bernard Shaw is credited with once
saying that he learned to speak in public the way a child learns to
ride a bicycle or a man learns to skate; by constantly making a fool of
himself in public until he got it right.
If GBS could make a fool of himself, who are we to hesitate?